All of us, at one time or another, have had to overcome adversity, and I'm here to tell ya I'm no exception. Over the past year my little family, my son specifically, has been challenged with a personal trauma. And in a rare display of restraint, I will give him his privacy and not disclose what that has been, but proudly tell you that he has worked diligently and triumphed in his struggle.My son is a good and noble man and I am and always have been so very proud of all he is, has done and aspires to do. So, to have witnessed his world being brought down around him these past twelve months has shattered my sense of reality. I've watched as he was pummeled by a debilitating condition and stood by proudly astonished as he has picked up the pieces and once again found his greatness. He has exhibited and I've witnessed the marathon of inner fortitude it has required for him to overcome his trials and tribulations.Words fail me when it comes to expressing my pride and admiration, so, I've decided to train for and complete a marathon. I want it to be a symbol for this past year that my son has had … kind of dedicating the run to him and all of the hard work he has done this past year getting through to the other side of his tribulations.His suffering has helped the whole family learn how to cope with adversity and rise above it. And because I'm me and I have to make a story or document everything in this blog, here are some things that my son has taught me . . . things that I think I can physically express and learn from through running a marathon:A. He was willing to change himself. Marathon training will require a new schedule, new priorities, new diet, and a new way of looking at life. His survival through this trauma required that he not only be open to change but that he celebrate that change. I'll try my best Noey!B. His recovery happened one step at a time. I cannot become a marathon runner overnight. It will take patience, time and a step-wise process to train my body to perform and run 26.2 miles. There was no instant gratification for you, Noey, and there will be none for me.C. No guarantees. Training for a marathon, like surviving diversity, is never a sure thing. There are no guarantees that I will make it all the way to the race or be able to finish it after starting, but Noey has taught me that the possibility of failure should not be a deterrent. Noah has been able to stay true to his goal, even when there was no certainty of getting to the other side, all habits that I will take with me into the training process . . .D. Noah's comfort was revoked by his commitment. I may have to endure injuries or failure on my path toward completion of this run but I will learn from my son's example that success requires discipline and focus. I've been doing a lot of research on this topic and have read that marathon training is all about learning how to manage suffering to enhance strength and endurance. Again I will draw on my son's example of not running away from suffering.When this event fell upon our family, it was difficult for us to take in the larger picture, to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but somehow we've survived. I would have thought that this event in my son's life would have crushed him, but, in the end, it has brought out the strength and sweetness that he has always carried inside. I'm so grateful to all of our dear friends and family for all of the support and love that you have shown us through this terrible time . . . may God bless you all.So, like the grapes that make up a fine wine, Noah has accepted the crushing force that entered his life a year ago, allowed himself to be broken, and emerged from the process a new man, stronger and more marvelous than he was before.I applaud you my darlin' boy and I dedicate this venture into a marathon run to you and all of the hard work you have done . . . I love you more than words can say.
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